Using a multimeter to measure current ( amps), you have to connect the meter between the batteries and the load, now that's not as simple as it sounds, because if you look at the size of the cables, you cannot connect it to the battery main cable, ok to step trough each individual unit in the van that draws less than 10amps.
A DC clamp meter around the main battery /batteries live cable will give you a max load , and you can probably get it around the feed to the inverter, to check the load and off load current. The difference between the battery reading and the inverter load, is what you may have to find, what is on, and possibly wasting your batteries, using a combination of multimeter voltage and current, remembering to change the leads to the correct position. Remember if the Monitor is not on but the inverter is still running, it's drawing power.
It's not easy and I hope as clear as mud. Jon may very well have other advise, but to be honest, I would suggest, a visit to
@JJF and see if he has a solution.
I would be reluctant to advise anyone to buy gear, as I've so come across so much rubbish, In my working life, I've alway had to used a combination of Anolog wall mounted gauges and Fluke Multimeter, Clamp AC/DC meters, the yearly calibrations cost 10 times what you would pay now, on Amazon, with a second set in the van for breakdown's, and cover if one went down.